Firm, but Flexible

Shared-Control De-Escalation to Prevent Power Struggles in the Classroom

Firm, but Flexible balances clear, non-negotiable directions (“firm”) with learner choice in how to comply (“flexible”). By offering options—seat choice, materials, pacing—after giving an instruction, BCBAs, special-education teachers, and parents keep tasks moving while diffusing low-level refusals and nurturing autonomy. The result: fewer stand-offs and smoother learning for autistic, ADHD, and neurotypical students alike.

Why use Firm, but Flexible?

• Fewer refusals and escape behaviors. Research on shared-control strategies shows notable drops in task avoidance when learners can choose the way they comply rather than whether they comply.
• Higher on-task engagement. Giving structured choices boosts intrinsic motivation and time on task without sacrificing instructional goals.
• Stronger teacher–learner rapport. Respectful flexibility lowers stress for both parties, fostering trust and reducing the likelihood of future escalations.

What you’ll unlock inside BIP Visualized:

• A step-by-step overview of how to use this evidence-based strategy
• Ability to customize images and descriptions to individualize for your learner
• Aligning, printable visual resources to support teaching and generalization
• Ability to add this visual strategy and more to build a custom-made visual BIP tailored to your learner’s needs

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