Rephrase Demands

Collaborative Language Cues

Rephrasing Demands to Reduce Defiance and Boost Cooperation

Collaborative Language Cues is the ABA-informed strategy that swaps “Do this now” commands for choice-based, partnership-focused phrasing—a proven way to lower oppositional behavior in learners with ODD, ADHD, and related challenges. By using “we” language, neutral statements, and meaningful choices, BCBAs, special-education teachers, and parents create a cooperative climate that keeps lessons moving and power struggles at bay.

Why use Collaborative Language Cues?

• Fewer refusals and oppositional episodes. Studies on demand phrasing show up to 50 % higher compliance when instructions are framed collaboratively rather than authoritatively.
• Greater task engagement and on-task time. Choice-rich directions increase learner buy-in, leading to longer sustained attention and smoother transitions between activities.
• Stronger teacher-learner rapport. Respectful, autonomy-supportive language improves social validity and reduces stress for both adults and learners.

What you’ll unlock inside BIP Visualized:

• A step-by-step overview of how to use this evidence-based strategy
• Ability to customize images and descriptions to individualize for your learner
• Aligning, printable visual resources to support teaching and generalization
• Ability to add this visual strategy and more to build a custom-made visual BIP tailored to your learner’s needs

Start your free trial to access the Collaborative Language Cues strategy and build a personalized, team-friendly visual Behavior Intervention Plan today.